Friday, September 12, 2014

Surviving Working From Home As A Mom



I run 3 businesses out of my home and I am a full time Stay-At-Home Mom – I think that makes me what we call a Work-At-Home Mom or WAHM!

I started my journey as a birth professional in 2010 and had my first my daughter in 2011. My activity slowed down significantly after having my baby. I've always wanted to contribute to our household income, one way or another, so I decided to also start 2 online boutiques – I’m An Organic Baby and I’m An Organic Mom. Now, I run the 2 online stores from my home and I also teach childbirth education classes out of my home. I meet birth doula clients in their homes and that is really the only time that my work activities take me outside of my house.

I also am a full time mom to my 3 year old daughter and I had a new baby daughter 3 weeks ago. I often wonder how I survive juggling all these roles and I think I narrowed it to 5 essentials:

  1. I have a supportive partner.

    I honestly don’t think I could do it without my supportive husband. He knows that when it is nap time for my daughter, it is my time in front of the computer. And we both spend most evenings working.

    He also does his fair share of cleaning, grocery shopping and cooking. To be perfectly honest, at the end of my recent pregnancy, he did almost all of it. But in general, we share the household tasks.

  2. I actually enjoy what I do!

    If I didn’t, I would just quit it all. I am very passionate about birth and babies and I love to connect with expecting moms and couples. It is such a privilege to be present at the birth of a new little baby.

    I also enjoy running my stores. It is fun and very different from what I have ever done. I also only sell products that I would buy myself, so it makes it easier to be involved in the business.

  3. Family life is still my priority.

    Weekends are family only, no work (unless of course I am on call for a birth and I receive THE call from a couple, in which case I have to drop everything and go).

    When I am with my daughter I am with her 100%. I don’t check my emails, and I focus all my attention on her needs.

  4. I carve out time for myself.

    Just me, Aurore. Not the mom, not the business woman, not the wife, just me. I work out – I tried pole dancing last year, it was a lot of fun and I may go back to it after this pregnancy. I love to walk. I wander the neighborhood or nearby trails with my little pug and soak up some vitamin D. I feel so refreshed after a good walk. I go to the library and browse the hundreds of books that I will never have time to read. And I see my friends. They are probably the ones that keep me sane the most. Great friends are rare to come by and I am lucky to have several. We chat, we laugh, we listen, we are there for one another.

  5. I cut myself some slack. 

    I am fortunate that my 3 jobs are self-employed so I don’t have a boss imposing hours upon me. I set some high expectations for myself but if I have an off day, I don’t stress about it. Sometimes, I’d rather read a book than work. I also don't give myself a guilt trip if I have to let my daughter have an additional 30 minutes of TV because I am finishing something related to one of my businesses. These extra 30 minutes help me give her my full attention later on.

School starts back up this September and my daughter will attend 3 mornings a week. That time to myself sounds like heaven, but I now have a newborn so I feel like my working days are limited until further notice. For now, they look like this:


Being a WAHM means that I am often tired and I get very little time for myself but who doesn’t? Stay at home moms are busy from mornings to nights and full time working moms have to juggle everyone’s schedules.

I consider myself very lucky. I get to see my kids grow up but I also grow as a professional woman at the same time. I definitely don’t develop my career as quickly as I could without the time I dedicate to my family, but I’m okay with that!


Aurore

Wife, Daughter, Sister and Mom of 2 little girls.
Birth Doula and Natural Childbirth Educator.
Owner of I'm An Organic Mom and I'm An Organic Baby.
Passionate about women, birth, babies, the environment, organic products, lifestyle and food.

Monday, August 25, 2014

Knee Length Striped Jersey Knit Robe Giveaway!



Baby #2 is here! I am very happy to announce the birth of my baby daughter, Maëlys!

In honor of this new life given to my family, I want to give you something too. A few days postpartum, and all I want to do is wear one of these soft 100% Organic Combed Cotton Robes so I thought I'd give one away!


Enter the giveaway below for a chance to win.

Knee Length Striped Jersey Knit Robe from I'm An Organic Mom.




ENTER GIVEAWAY HERE!


Good Luck!

Aurore

Wife, Daughter, Sister and Mom of 1 little girl and another one on the way.
Birth Doula and Natural Childbirth Educator.
Owner of I'm An Organic Mom and I'm An Organic Baby.
Passionate about women, birth, babies, the environment, organic products, lifestyle and food.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

What Does It Mean To Be An Organic Mom? - Part 1



A little bit of background may be helpful as this is my first post!

I am the mom of a 3 year old daughter. She was born July 2011 and I am now expecting my second baby in August. My husband Ben and I moved from New York City to Charleston, SC to give our kids and the dog, Scarlett a more outdoorsy life.
I am a birth doula and childbirth educator. I also own and operate I'm An Organic Mom and I'm An Organic Baby. We have busy lives and we like it this way!


Being an organic mom can mean a lot of different things for a lot of different women. The following is what it means for me. When I started thinking about this post, ideas kept flowing and it became clear that it would need to be several blog posts :)

My journey as an organic mom started before I even had my daughter. I recycled, turned off lights when I left a room, controlled the A/C and my water consumption, tried to walk instead of taking the car and I also purchased some organic food. I suppose my green mind was somehow passed down from my parents, but I became even more aware of all that can be done after I had my daughter and became a mom.

I had a natural water birth at home. My daughter started her journey into this life drug free. Can this be considered an organic birth? I wonder...

We also used cloth diapers. I had a lot to learn and a lot to teach my husband but it was all worth it. We cloth diapered for 2 years, until she became potty trained. I am also thrilled to know that I am going to reuse my cloth diaper stash with our new baby in a couple of months.

Savannah wore an amber teething necklace for much of her teething months (3 years on, and we are still waiting on 1 molar). We tried to minimize the amount of medicine we would need to give her. We also researched vaccines and decided to delay vaccinations for as long as possible. We bought BPA free plates and cups for her, and we are going to try glass containers and bottles for the next baby. Mind you, we don't use bottles much in our household. Being at home allowed me to exclusively breastfeed Savannah for 7 months and she kept on nursing for 2 years and 10 months. She has been a very healthy baby and I credit extended, on-demand breastfeeding. Isn't breastmilk the ultimate organic food?

Savannah's skin has always been a concern of mine. She has beautiful, soft baby skin but I am prone to eczema and I want to make sure that she uses organic bath products and creams. I want to protect her skin as long as possible. The area where I am still conflicted is with suncream. I actually very rarely put it on her or me for that matter. I did when the sun became very strong back in April and then I let her skin tan slowly. Of course, I don't expose her to the sun in the middle of the day. We go out early mornings and late afternoons to avoid the most harmful sun rays.

We also favor wooden toys or recycled toys. They are more durable and are great for my daughter's imagination. Most of our operated battery toys just don't work anymore or need to have the batteries constantly changed which creates a lot of frustration for the whole family. We are going to reuse a lot of our wooden toys for the new baby. Some were already passed down from other families.

I am now very proud when my daughter uses both sides of her paper to color or knows to throw away her yogurt after she rinses it into the blue recycling "poubelle" (the French word for trash can). Being an organic mom means that I need to teach her how to be green. I can lead by example but a lot of explanation may be necessary too. We tell Savannah not to let the water run when she brushes her teeth or to turn off lights when she leaves a room. It is definitely a work in progress.

There is a lot more than could be done. We could ditch the cloth diapers entirely and only practice elimination communication. We could tell our generous family and friends that we only want organic products for our children when a birthday comes up. We could feed our daughter only organic food, and only from local sources - eating with the seasons. No sugar, no processed food ever and so much more! But we aren't there yet!

This is how my journey as an organic mom started. It started by being a woman who cared about the environment and then a mom who wanted to keep her baby safe.
Some of my and my husband's choices can seem radical or extreme but we discussed them at length and this is what works for our family. Being an organic mom may mean something very different for you and that is okay. There is never a hint of judgement in what I write or say - I can only talk for myself.

I consider myself an organic mom because I try to make organic choices for my children. But I am also an organic mom because I make organic choices for my household and myself! You can read more about it at https://imanorganicmom.blogspot.com in the next 2 posts coming soon!


Aurore

Wife, Daughter, Sister and Mom of 1 little girl and another one on the way.
Birth Doula and Natural Childbirth Educator.
Owner of I'm An Organic Mom and I'm An Organic Baby.
Passionate about women, birth, babies, the environment, organic products, lifestyle and food.

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